Yes, but let’s try to limit our discussion to the United States. None of us are intimatally familiar with the laws of Communist China, I dare say.
And, for that matter, what is wrong with wanting children of “normal” height? Dwarves tend to have more accidents then “normals” because the adult world is not designed for their height specifications. I’m not saying being a dwarf is “bad” just that it is more challenging then what we would consider normal.
Is it not a greater good to give your child all the best advantages you can? Do the rich write their children out of their wills to force them to work on an even playing field with the poor? Do they find the worst possible schools for their children, or do they instead find the best possible schools, doctors, trainers, etc they can afford? Don’t we all?
I’d never take my children to the free medical clinics because I have a doctor I know does a good job. He costs more, but my progeny are worth the extra sacrifice. If I wanted to teach them music, I would not train them with only my own skills in piano, but would hire a teacher.
I don’t see genetic manipulation as any different. If you are screening for genetic diseases and weeding them out, why not tweak them a bit to have the traits you find attractive in your mate? If you think green eyes are hawt and if your husband thinks your mammary glands are phat, why not pass those traits on to your children, if you have a choice?