Well in all honesty,
You guys wouldn’t be able to handle ANY kind of humor on this matter as a whole (Despite the fact science says that’s the way to handle it!)
A good personal friend of mine is about to die of cancer (She’s counting days now, not weeks) And she likes hanging out with me the most because I give her grief about being a weak link, and tell her how she’s got to step up / suck it up, VS just sitting around and feeling sorry for her.
Plus Panzer Painter is cool, and I give a damn! It was endearing to see everyone step up to the plate.