Speaking of dice war games…. I played Lord of the Rings Risk with my 13 y/o daughter the other night (very sweet Risk game - first themed Risk game I’ve ever played)
Of course in my house, I’m known for winning almost all games every time. But she had a sound strategy - stubbornly kept putting armies in Osgiliath, right next to Minas Morgul (entrance to Mordor) and she outnumbered my army by a fair amount. I was beginning to get a little concerned that she could clean out all of Mordor on her first move, and that was my main power center… Especially if she got above average luck.
What followed was one of the biggest lucky/unlucky streaks I’ve ever seen. She kept losing 2 armies after 2 armies. After awhile, she had fewer eagles than I had cave trolls (each worth 5 armies apiece). Finally, she had to stop. In other battles, she was barely able to earn her risk card (after being disappointed by the dice, she was a little disoriented and forgot she hadn’t earned a Risk card).
She still had hope (more than I would have had) and found another strategy.
I take my turn, and my luck continues. I mowed through most of Gondor without losing much. I offered to quit playing and get a fresh start another time. She wasn’t quite ready for that yet.
Most kids would have been really upset at this point. Very frustrated would be an understatement. With a little luck, she might have even beat the old man in a war strategy game. I let her know I was very proud of her for keeping her composure. It was as if she realized it was just a game and that the dice had beaten her. They ruined our game (neither of us was happy, of course - and set up takes a long time in that game), but she seemed to understand that there was nothing she could do about it, that it was a game of chance and fun along with the strategy, and that maybe some other day she could take the old gamer man down.
Not bringing this up for the purpose of bragging on my girl, but to try to keep things light and fun by talking about a different game.
Everyone likes to play with a good sport. I will try to be a good sport, graceful in winning or losing, this game. Maybe I learned something from my girl. Maybe.