Ah, tricky again. I was also thinking of a scenario between boyfriend and girlfriend versus husband and wife, and what changes that makes.
As for the parent-minor concern, my initial reaction is over “ownership,†loosely defined. Children, while they can sue to divorce their parents, aren’t full adults, and so don’t have full control of their bodies, livelihoods, etc. As such, I would say, yes, parents can force their child to have an abortion, provided they and the minor are fully cognizant of the health and psychological risks, if any, that might be involved. As an implementation though, I’m not sure how that would work. Strapping a teenage girl down to an operating table doesn’t seem like an especially good idea. However, this solution rather simply assumes who pays: the parents of the minor. I’m not certain that’s the case. If the minor is the one who must take financial and social responsibility for the child, then I’d be inclined to think differently. If that’s the case, then because of inherence of responsibility, the minor could bring the baby to term over the objections of her parents.
I think we can further complicate the situation further by asking what the father and his parents would want. I can envision a nightmare scenario where one set of parents wants the child, while another does not, but that may also conflict with the desires of both the mother and father. This is why I never want to go into family law. I think ultimately it is a social call though: what limits do we set for minors to have control over their own bodies? And how does that complement (or not) policies on the age of responsibility and adulthood? Moreover, how does something like religion play in? What if the parents religiously cannot accept abortion, but the mother or father can? What if the roles are reversed?
The best that I can say for this is I hope that the instances of its occurrence are rare. For the ones that do occur, I hope that mediation can resolve the dispute. But, for those awful times when it all comes together, I am slightly inclined to think that the one who pays is the one who decides, but this must be measured against the potential for health and psychological harm. I don’t know if any family or individual in this kind of situation can walk out of an abortion or resolution to keep the baby and not be utterly devastated by it. If that’s the case, then maybe there’s an argument for more birth control. :-?