Ah ok, then additionally to the dice server issue he encounters the RAM-issue, solved starting from https://www.axisandallies.org/forums/index.php?topic=42805.msg1819776#msg1819776
I would not recommend to get rid of the vmopitons. Starting the triplea.exe without vmoptions is like directly executing the triplea.jar.
You can do so, but you might experience Out-Of-Memory Errors during the game, as it happened to majikforce (https://www.axisandallies.org/forums/index.php?topic=42805.msg1819605#msg1819605).